perfectionism

Why Your Habit Dies

Why Your Habit Dies

energy management, habit, perfectionism
When starting a new habit, the real task isn't what you might initially think. The process is less about the specific activity—like running, meditating, or studying—and more about shifting the action from something you consciously decide to do to something you do automatically. This transition requires significant effort as you're working on integrating this behavior into your routine seamlessly.To foster a lasting habit, it's crucial to begin with actions so small that they're almost impossible not to do. Instead of waiting for motivation to begin with significant demands—like 45 minutes of running immediately—start with modest goals such as running for just one minute. This approach helps create the necessary space for the habit to grow its roots, making transitions to more extended periods more intuitive over time.This method applies to any habit: whether it's studying, meditating, or managing daily emails, beginning with tiny increments encourages consistency and sustainability. Starting small ensures that the action becomes habitual, making it easier to incrementally increase the load and maintain the habit long-term. By doing so, you set the foundation for successful, enduring habits.
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Meet Donae

As an occupational therapist, professionally trained coach, and a fellow ADHD brain I understand how ADHD can impact all of life; relationships, careers, finances, self care, and even self trust.

I've seen how the shame of past failures (and the fear of experiencing more) can shut us down and make it hard to know what to do next.  

If the techniques that work for typical brains haven't worked for you, it's time to try something new. Designing a life with more ease, self trust, and peace is possible. I can help you learn to work with your brain so you can make the changes that matter to you!


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